The dealer is correct. If you look at the gasket, it is made to fold as a tube. So if you squeeze a ball, where in place > do you position that angle so you see, either side facing whatever part of the head or pipe is like a ball without direction. You can do it either way.
I come along, anal-eyes said parts in hand, and then assemble as per. The way you install a washer is when they stamp it out, the flatter side has more surface contact, so you position the washer over the surface, where the lock washer and nut ride more in the middle of the washer, where it does not need that drop off, but spreads that flat surface on the other side with more contact surface. Reverse the washer, then the punched curve of the washer is up in the air, away from full contact.
When I open my mouth, it speaks about massaging the parts on. Like if we set the clutch pack up, the punched out steel plates have that flat-cut-side, where all the steels run better all in one direction. I just explained how anal the build can be once you assemble the bike from-the-ground-up. You deal with the same parts for decades, you begin to find even the freewheeling gears rubbing against the washer has to be turn with the curve toward the gear. This is so as not to cut the gear with the edge of the washer. Now the spin can roll/mesh with the round side lifted [stamped> direction] away from the gear so the rub is just a hard push up at it = No scores. Better known as a, "thrust washer.'
But something like the exhaust gasket and how that is made, you can get away with the crush either way. You did good. Don't worry about that gasket turn. You go deeper in the engine like the clutch pack and transmission gear washers, then yeah, we might have a longevity problem if say we turn those parts over the other direction.
That is the way to think on assembly. Leave it. The crush is good for one time. So you reverse is just a waste. Hand tighten the header so it floats where it wants. Then torque those either to spec or hand tight if you have a feel for about 15/20 lbs. of foot torque. Book calls for 25-pounds torque. After the header floats you giggling the rear tip, the first 15/20 is by hand. Torque the other 5 pounds with a beam bar or click type torque wrench. I get away with the nuts by hand. You would have to remove the radiator to get a straight shot at the nuts. Either that, or have a large selection of 1/4 drive sockets and extensions to torque it that way leaving the radiator on. So, hand is the 3rd option you do not pull the studs out of the head kind of too tight be careful not to over tighten. If you cannot spin a nut off a thread, then the thread and nut are stretched and/or threads are angled at a new pitch. Any nut or bolt being hard to spin itself in either direction freely is not to be used.
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