I just checked mine. It now is a one piece [siamese] connector. Do this first: 10 finger pushups, then pull the one or even try both if you do 10 more finger pushups on the other hand. Hold foot on handlebar, one hand on each connector and pull towards your chest... don't forget to read my sig line.
Your camera is good enough to see the tab, and depress it with a homemade tongue depressor. You can forgo all the attempted damage and let goop glue come to the rescue. Say on the non-sacrificial side of both OEM connectors, simply find a single wire, spice the ends to a Y, jam the strands into the loops of the brass connector, goop it on [not in] and let it setup.
Take a multimeter and find that the ends did make contact, or screw that, take the other wire end, and however that connector is, be it male/female, use the one whole strand and say it's a [single hole] female on the aftermarket connector; see if it can fit tight using a twist, ball it up, whatever is the best contact, then glue this on. It acts as just the holder in place glue. Meaning, I lay the glue over the connector, over the wire and that holds without pushing glue into the strands.
This way, I can see I need more glue to cover whatever bare wire is hanging out of the connector, I cover that too, no e-tape needed. Come time and heat, the tape unravels and besides, those days are over with this glue. I can pop the wire out, pull the glue off, she it back to OEM on both connector ends, no cutting/tab damage needed> You look the pro on the selling side, not a butcher on the cutting side and now the buyer is not looking too confident on your... need I say?
Signed,
Lost Sale
* Last updated by: Hub on 3/6/2021 @ 8:51 AM *
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